As someone who is gender non-conforming, it seems like you need to do a lot more research - and talk to a lot more trans, nonbinary, and non-conforming people - before you write further on this subject. This take is superficial and frankly a little insulting. You need to research something like this much more in depth before you write about it when you clearly have little to no experience or knowledge about it. Thankfully your audience is so small it won't do any damage, but it can damage your reputation. But more than that, you should care about educating yourself and not isolating your readers who are not cis.